Thank you to @age_uk for having us to play at one of your day centres . Even though I still consider myself young , I can't help but think about how I would cope if I were elderly and alone , especially at this time of year . I always say to my wife (selfishly) I hope I pass away before she does , simply because I think she would cope better than me . Plus I couldn't imagine a life after her (vomit bag . . .